The data is shared between both accounts — signing in just controls who sees what.
The luteal phase (ovulation to next period) is biologically stable — typically 12–14 days. Ovulation is estimated as 14 days before your next predicted period. Only change this if you've confirmed your own luteal length via BBT or LH testing.
Get a heads-up 3 days before a period, at the start of the period, at each phase change, and when the fertile / peak-libido week begins.
Anything with an @ is emailed; anything else is a HA webhook ID (pushes via Home Assistant). Add both partners' IDs.
When a yellow, green or blue light is picked in the top bar, this list gets a push 5 minutes later (so a misclick can be corrected first). Red never sends. Usually just one person — the one being told.
A daily nudge to pick a light, sent only if none has been picked yet that day. The lights clear at 4am, so this is the "don't forget" ping — send it to whoever picks.
The second ping only goes out if there's still no light picked by then. Clear it to have just the one reminder.
No nudge on days she's logged as bleeding (or the day after, until she says otherwise). Goes by what's actually logged — a predicted period never silences it. His “ask her to set her light” button still works.
Your data lives on the server and is backed up nightly. Use these for a personal copy.
Backfill a past day here — the light sets her libido for that day (blue = Needs It, green = Into It, yellow = Begrudgingly, red = No Way). Only a light set for today sends a push; historical ones never do.
Log this any day — even when nothing happens. Marking the “not horny” days is how you learn when to plan the long sessions.